How to book a pornstar, a step by step guide
To book a pornstar, decide the booking type, set a realistic budget, pick your dates, write a clear brief and send it to verified 18+ stars. Compare the offers, check the cancellation tier, pay a 30 percent deposit, sign the contract and plan travel and the rider.
This guide walks through each step, the mistakes we see most often and what gets a request rejected. When you are ready, you can book a pornstar in a few minutes.
Decide what you are booking
Start with the booking type. It shapes the rate, the paperwork and the plan for the day. There are 11 types.
- Club appearance and feature dance performance, for venues.
- Convention signing and merch signing session, for organizers and brands.
- Brand appearance and podcast or interview, for marketing and media.
- Studio shoot, creator collaboration and professional content production, for producers and creators.
- Personalized video greeting and virtual meet and greet, for fans and brands.
Private fans can book only the last two. If you are not sure, read our overview of how to hire a pornstar.
Set a realistic budget
Each star sets her own rate for each booking type, so we never quote prices. What moves the rate up or down:
- Booking type and length. A full night costs more than a short meet and greet.
- Travel. Flights, hotel and ground transport for stars outside your city.
- Date. Weekends and holidays fill first.
- Usage. How long and where you use photos or video under the content license.
- Exclusivity. Asking her not to appear nearby around your date.
Add the 15 percent platform fee on top of the booking value. Our guide on pornstar appearance fees explains each part.
Pick your dates and give notice
Six to ten weeks is a comfortable lead time for live events. Video greetings need much less. Give one main date and one backup if you can. A request without an offer closes after 7 days.
Write a brief that gets answered
A clear brief gets faster, better offers. Use this checklist.
- City and venue type
- Booking type and what she will do
- Date, start time and duration
- Your budget
- Audience and expected crowd size
- Travel you cover
- Rider needs, such as stage, security and green room
- Photo, video and promotion plans
- Anything that is off limits for your venue
Building a brief needs no account. You see the fee, the deposit, the contract preview and the timeline before you sign up.
Compare the offers
The star or her agency accepts, declines or sends a counter-offer. Compare more than the rate. Check what is included, the travel terms, the set times and the review history from completed bookings.
Read the cancellation tier
Each star picks a flexible, standard or strict tier. Flexible returns the most of your deposit, strict the least. The exact cutoffs and refund share are on the offer and in the contract before you pay. If she cancels or does not show, you get the full deposit back and no balance is charged.
Pay the deposit and sign the contract
Accept the offer and pay a 30 percent deposit plus the 15 percent fee through secure payment. The deposit is held by the platform until the booking happens. The contract, model release and content license are signed in the app.
| Example calculation | Amount |
|---|---|
| Booking value | 3,000 USD |
| Platform fee (15 percent) | 450 USD |
| Deposit (30 percent) | 900 USD |
| Due at confirmation | 1,350 USD |
| Balance before the date | 2,100 USD |
| Total | 3,450 USD |
Plan travel and the rider
Add flights, hotel, ground transport and the call sheet to the booking. Agree the rider in writing: stage, security escort, green room, set times, photo policy and merch table. Rules for adult entertainment differ by city and state, so confirm with your venue and your local authority what is allowed.
Your checklist for the day
- Security escort named and briefed
- Green room ready and private
- Set times shared with staff and DJ
- Photo policy posted for guests
- Merch table set up, if booked
- One contact on your side for the whole visit
Reminders go out 7 days, 48 hours and 3 hours before the booking.
After the booking
Funds are released to the star 48 hours after the booking is completed. Leave a review, since reviews come only from completed bookings, and your review helps the next buyer. Keep the contract and license with your records. If you plan a repeat night, send the same star a new brief from the booking, so the history stays in one place. Use photos and video only as the content license allows.
Booking a video greeting or a virtual meet and greet
Fans and brands often start with a video. The steps are the same, only shorter. Pick the star, choose a personalized video greeting or a live video call, and write who it is for, the occasion and any names to mention. Keep the request friendly and simple. Requests with sexual content are rejected like any other. For brand use, say where the video will run, so the content license covers it. Read more about personalized pornstar videos for brands and fans.
Common mistakes to avoid
- A vague brief with no budget or set times.
- Too little notice for a weekend night.
- Skipping the cancellation tier before paying.
- Promotion that uses images she has not approved.
- Asking for contact details before the deposit.
- Changing the rider by phone instead of inside the booking.
- Booking a star who does not travel to your city without asking about travel terms.
What gets a request rejected
Every request is screened before any star sees it. Requests for sexual services, private physical contact, private dates or companionship are rejected and the account is blocked. Ambiguous requests are rejected by default. Read the trust and safety rules. Booking in a big event city? See bookings in Las Vegas.
FAQ
How long does it take to book a pornstar?
Offers often come within days. Requests without an offer close after 7 days. For live events, start six to ten weeks ahead.
Do I need an account to see the costs?
No. Build a brief without an account to see the fee, deposit, contract preview and timeline.
How much does it cost?
Each star sets her own rate per booking type. You add a 15 percent platform fee, or 7 percent on the Studio plan.
Can I book a star for a private party?
Professional appearances at events are fine, within the zero tolerance rules. Private fans can book personalized video greetings and virtual meet and greets.
What if the star cancels?
You get the full deposit back and no balance is charged.